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Australians need to change how they view people with disability.

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Trigger warning: this post briefly touches on fillicide and may be triggering for some readers. Please proceed with caution.

It’s only March, and already, Australia provesxwe have a long way to go in how we treat peoole with a disability.

In January, autistic brothers, Otis, 14 and Leon, 16: Clune died in a suspected murder – suicide in Mosman Park, Western Australia. A disability support worker found a note warning her not to go inside.

Over the next month, reporting and commenting on the case was swift, both in mainstream and social media. It highlighted how people view disabled people, especially those with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) in this country.

Many TikTok creators who had ASD, pointed out the differences on how this case was reported, compared to the murder of non – disabled/ non – neurodivergent children.

Cases of fillicide against non – neurodivergent and non – disabled children is met with swift condemnation, with very little analysis on why it occurred. Suggestions that the killer snapped is immediately met with outrage.

Conversely, people were quick to empathise with the parentsMalwenna Goasdoue and Jarrod Clune.

News.com.au even had the gall to quote a parent, calling Leon a “monster”. There is no way anyone would say that about a neurotypical child.

Media slams NDIS participants for getting “haircuts” and “going to cafes”

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This article infuriates me.

Luke Kinsella wrote an inflammatory headline in the Financial Review, accusing NDIS participants of using NDIS funds for going to cafes and getting haircuts. Only later did Luke Kinsella admit that the NDIS funds covered support wotker, not the activity itself.

Funding for social and community partticioation enables NDIS participants to have carersaccompany them on faily activitiesoutside the home such asg9ing to the shops, getting a haircut, seeing a movie, or going for a walk, although it does not include the cost of the activity itself.

(‘NDIS soends $12b on support for walks, movies,haircuts’, Luke Kinsella, Financial Review, 15 March 2026).

TikTokers have also pointed fingers at anti – CCP creator, Drew Pavlou on sensational coverage of alleged fraud in the NDIS. To his credit, from what I’ve seen, he doesn’t attack NDIS participants themselves, but raises concerns on the legitimacy on some NDIS providers. And, unlike Kinsella, it doesn’t seem like he’s out to ragebait, using the disabled community.

Employers admit discriminating against disabled job seekers

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The only surprise is that some employers admit it.

According to ABC, 19% of employers admitted they reject potential candidates with a disability. Around 70% have also admitted they discriminate based on race, mental illness and age.

I have a suspicion that a lot more employers just didn’t admit they discriminate against people with disability.

Content creator and aspiring musician, Jay Morgan have pointed out that many employers covertly discrininare against disabled people by mandating having a driver’s license, even if it’s not really required for the job. They’re right.

The discrimination against disabled people has been going on for years, despite governments offering wage subsidy incentives, which are given by employment agencies.

So, what is the answer? Honestly, I think Australia has a massive attitude problem. Councils, the media, employers and, frankly people in general think disabled people are just burdens.

Employers just see cost of having disabled employees despite evidence proving that diversity, including people with disabilities, actually are a net positive to businesses. The penalties on discrimination need to be so severe that it’d be better for businesses not to discrimunate.

The days of ‘education’ ate over. Some people have disabilities, get over it!

P.S. On a positive note, one company that does treat people with disabilities brilliantly is Virgin Australia. I can’t fault them.

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What does it mean to go ‘no contact’ and why does it happen?

Early this year, the world heard about Brooklyn Beckham going ‘no contact’ with parents David and Victoria Beckham.

The twenty – six – year – old model and aspiring chef accused them of trying to “ruin” his marriage to his wife, Nicola Peltz in 2022. He also accused them of causing him to have “crippling anxiety” in a lengthy Instagram post.

A part of the post reads:

For my entire life, my parents have controlled narratives in the press about our family. The performative social media posts, family events and inauthentic relationships have been a fixture of the life I was born into…

When referring to his parents and his marriage, he wrote:

They [Victoria and David] were adament on me signing [the rights to his name away], before my wedding date because then the terms of the deal would be initiated. My holdout affected their payday, and they never treated me the same since. During the wedding planning, my mum went so far as to call me “evil” because Nicola and I chose to include my Nanny Sandra and Nicola’s “Naunni” at our table, because they both didn’t have their husbands. Both of our parents had their own tables equally adjacent to ours.

Responses to Brooklyn

Beckhams’ feud has caused division within the family. According to Herald Sun, Brooklyn’s brother, Romeo has attacked Peltz, calling her a “problem” after Brooklyn slammed his parents on Instagram.

Celebrity chef, Gordon Ramsay is good friends with David and Victoria. He told The Sun that they were “good parents”.

When talking about Beckhams’ relationship with Brooklyn, Ramsay added:

They have both put so much energy into their kids, and I know just how many times they have got Brooklyn out of the s**t.

(“Brooklyn Beckham cuts ties with the Tamsays after Gordon’s warning”, Becca Monaghan, MSN, 20 February 2026).

While Ramsay and Brooklyn have communicated, Brooklyn unfollowed two of Ramsay’s children on social media.

Similar to Romeo, Ramsay points to Peltz as the reason for the estrangement.

Other celebrities have chimed in to the saga. Singer, Marc Anthony described the feud as “extremely unfortunate”: He refused to divoluge in specific details at what happened at Beckham’s/ Peltz’s wedding.

GB Newspresenter, Nana Akua slammed Brooklyn for his Instagram post,, labelling him an “ungrateful little brat”. Sky News Australia’s Danica Di Giorgio has repeated this view.

Reasons why people go no – contact with family

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Of course, no one can know about what is truly going on with the Beckhams or any other family in behind closed doors. Noone really jnows why Brooklyn’s wedding was the final straw.

Personally, I find it interestimg that people have put the blame on Peltz. I’m not going to add any personal opinion on the matter. All I’ll say is that there is research as to why families become estranged.

According to Cognitive Psychology, reasons people go no contact include:

  • Abuse
  • Repeat boundary violations
  • Emotionally unavailable parent/s
  • Parentification
  • Guarding one’s own mental health
  • Emotional exhaustion from trying to repair relationship/s

The possible pros and pitfalls of going no contact

According to Alexis Friedlander, going ‘no contact’ can help a person heal. Potential benefits of going no contact can include:

  • Freedom to process the ending of a relationship without getting enotionally entangled
  • Self – reliance, rather than seeking external validation and building healthy coping strategies
  • Breaking the cycle of confusion brought on by abuse in a relationship

Friedlander warns there are also potential downsides to going no contact. They are:

  • Intense loneliness and isolation
  • Self – blame
  • Not getting closure you might long for

I think it’s fair to say that no one takes going no contact to friend, family or exes lightly. And, again, no one can know someone else’s full story. Including the Beckhams.