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“Make – up for babies”, really? Let’s talk about ‘skincare’ for young children

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Early last year, news oulets, such as the BBC were reporting on the Sephora craze.

Many tween girls were flooding beauty stores, including Sephora, and buying their products. #sephora and #sephorakids were trending on TikTok and Instagram. However, many posts that included the hashtags featured creators also slamming the craze. Many creators accused the young shoppers of being rude to customers and staff.

Other creators exposed harsh ingredients, such as retinol, were found in products, such as Drunk Elephant.

Fast forward twelve months, advertisers of beauty products are targeting children even younger.

Make – up for toddlers?

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If you think beauty companies targeting tweens is ridiculous, you ain’t heard nothin’ yet! According to Angela Mollard, girls as young as three are being introduced to beauty. And no, it’s not harmless play.

The hobbyfication of skincare and make-up is no longer a ‘bit of fun’ and ‘not that deep’ as many are saying. It’s not the same as playing dress ups.

Not only are ‘beauty routines for toddlers unnecessary, but are potentially harmful.

…it’s physically, emotionally and financially harming children by peddling the insidious messages to (mainly) girls that they are not good enough as they are…

(“I don’t care if this sounds like judgement, because it is” Angela Mollard on makeup and babies”, Angela Mollard, Herald Sun, 23 November 2025)

Effects of introducing toddlers to beauty products

Mollard is right about the harnful effects of makeup on toddlers, including the physical ones.

According to Science Alert, a baby’s or toddler’s skin is still developing. It’s thinner and is absorbent. As a result, babies’ and toddlers’ skin is more likely to become irritated or have an allergic reaction.

When babies and toddlers are exposed to the irritants so young, it may lead to hormone disruption later in life.

Babies have seven layers of skin. However, the skin is so thin that chemicals can easily enter a baby’s bloodstream. Babies and toddlers also have less sebum, (which naturally moisturises skin). As a result, a baby or toddler’s skin can get dry and irritated when exposed to certain chemicals.

More harmful side effects of makeup on babies and toddlers

According to The Conversation:

  • Before the age of three, any exposure to makeup can affect their microbiome
  • Researchers have found that carcenogenics, such as formaldehyde, in bronzers and nail polish
  • Toluene is a harmful substance and is considered a work hazard substance in Australia. Safework Australia warns that it can be flammable and a toxic vapour
  • Many chemicals used in soaps, detergents and makeup can disrupt hormones, which may affect fertility
  • Products labelled “natural” aren’t free of risk. A study published in the National Library of Medicine found that, on average, each product studied contained 4.5 allergens

Children aren’t ’miniature adults’

I think Adam Taylor in The Conversation makes a really important point:

Babies and young children aren’t just miniature adults. Their skin is still developing and more vulnerable to irritation, chemical absorption and systemic effects…

(“Using cosmetics on babies and children could disrupt hormones and trigger allergies”,Adam Taylor, The Conversation, 26 July 2025)

Children should be able to play and explore the world safely. They should not be exposed to adults’ insecurities about appearance and the cosmetic companies that prey on it.

Makeup: identity, choice and pressure to conform

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Until very recently, I hadn’t worn makeup since I graduated Year 12. That was in 2008 — fourteen years ago.

I tried getting into makeup. However, I never really established why. Why the sudden change? I thought I wanted to wear makeup for work (hopefully) next year.

Frankly, I don’t have a connection to makeup. Sure, I like the way foundation looks (minus the reaction). Eyeshadow is pretty. But other than that… I honestly don’t care about makeup.

Makeup and self – care

As you can probably tell, I’m not a huge fan of wearing makeup. No shade to anyone who wears it. I can see the benefits for those who choose to wear it: confidence, etc.

Australian hockey player, Davis Atkins was unexpectedly outed as gay. He told ABC Everyday how he uses makeup self care in the aftermath:

When I did [make beauty content], I realised how doing makeup provides such a good opportunity for me to relax and spend time for myself doing something I find soothing

Davis Atkins as told to Benjamin Wilson, ABC Everyday, 25 November 2022

Atkins claimed that makeup also became his way to express his identity.

Makeup and sexuality

People wear makeup for various reasons. Some women follow their mother’s footsteps by wearing makeup.

Apparently, there are scientific reasons why women wear makeup. These are: “camouflage” and “seduction”.

Darkness around the eyes and the lips are often seen as attractive. The author bluntly pointe$ iut that attractive people are often more successful: in friendships, attracting a partner and even getting a job.

I’ve also read that some straight women subconciously dress in ways to attract men at the fertile times in their cycle.

The Science of People does specify that this study focused on straight and cis men and women.

I’ve wondered whether my lack of interest in makeup correlates with my lack of attraction. However, asexual people have different relationships with makeup; some wear it, some don’t.

The pressure on women (and everyone) needs to stop

Beautiful woman with makeup posed with head tilted up.
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I don’t have an issue with makeup or people who wear it. I do have a problem with beauty standards cis women are held to.

I also have a problem with attractiveness is apparently a factor in candidates being successful in getting a job. Why does it matter? It just maintains the status quo. It just keeps certain groups of people disadvantaged.

Also, as anyone who’s grown up in the 2000’s know, beauty standards that media and social media push are unrealistic for most people. If ‘attractiveness’ — the way the media and social media define it — we have a problem.

Look, if you want to wear makeup, go for it. If that’s what makes you feel good, go you. You do you. The choice to wear or not shouldn’t mean discrimination or disadvantage.

What do you think? Do you wear makeup? Is there too much pressure for people to be unrealistically attractive in workplaces? Feel free to leave your thoughts in the comments below.